Monday, August 18, 2008


Wikipedia states that Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behavior between two or more beings. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem, and affection along with a degree of rendering service to friends in times of need or crisis. Friends will welcome each others company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. Their tastes will usually be similar and may converge, and they will share enjoyable activities. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors.

I agree - I have always said that a friend is there to support and care, not to demand or criticize. I have only a few friend and I can count them on one hand; John (my sole mate), Monste Khory, Paco & Robin. there are other poeple that are close and a friends but they are not those that I would call if I have a problem I needed help with.

A Friend is always there for you even when they do not want to be...ansering phone call at all hours of the night, telling you the truth when no one esle will; friendship is not smoething I give a way friendship is a process that grows into a great thing.

Friends once you find them some time you can never get rid of them.

Sunday, August 17, 2008

Time passes so fast...

Time passes so fast that It is not almost my B-day again! Sept. 21, 2008 I will be 36; it is not that is will be any other year older just that the time has gone so fast.

We now have our home in San Felipe "the tire house" and we are very happy to be living here. My Mom and Dad's house is finished in PDO where they are vacationing for a week. They should be here full time in late January 2009. Mom & Jim and ahppy and ever adding to there fabulous home in Fresno. John is a wonderful husband that cares and loves me every day, with a mind of an 18 year old. Troy is doing really well and serious with Shurice his girlfriend for a year or so. Liamarie is just not happy - working through trying to find out who she is and how Liamarie fits in the world. She is not sure how or what she is and does not have the best supportive surroundings and with us far away we can not make is worse or better.

My year has been good but I have not done all I need to do to make me a better person. I have a tendancey to make sure other and healthy and happy before I myself am sold and good with me.

I am going to start a new thing for me...I am going to set goals to build a better me. Like when New Years Eve rolls around; I am going to better myself and then in return it will better my life and thoses in it.

1. No more procurastination
2. Stay healthy by work out at least 5 days aweek and eating clean
3. staying contact with those that I love. E-mail and / or call once a week with or with out a reply. The e-mails will be about what is going on in our life and openning the door to hear how they are doing.